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looked like were from Christmas morning, with smiling       weaknesses, and all the prejudice against my fellow
        faces of them and their families. Other pictures showed     man.
        them doing fun things while they were in their elder years,
        like holding up one big catch from a fishing trip, riding   Give my sins to the devil.
        bikes down the driveway, or sitting at a table holding one   Give my soul to God.
        of their grandchildren.
                                                                    If, by chance, you wish to remember me, do it with a
        At the conclusion of the slideshow, Mr. Gaddini opened      kind deed or word to someone who needs you. If you
        the floor for the friends and family members who came       do all I have asked, I will live forever.
        for the memorial service. Others could not attend the
                                                                  After reflections had concluded, Mackenzie Murphy, the
        memorial service but sent reflections of their own to be
                                                                  class vice-president, offered closing remarks for the
        read aloud by students:
                                                                  ceremony.
        “He was drafted into the Army nine months after
        graduating from Willamina High School, where he had       “Life is the single most precious gift we will ever receive.
        learned to buck and fall timber at the young age of 16    Having the opportunity to be here, existing alongside
        during the summers. Then had worked in the shipyards in   each of you, is a blessing, to put it simply. Everything else
        Portland until drafted.                                   in life is just a bonus. If we are lucky, we will have the
                                                                  opportunity to make choices for ourselves, build a life and
        “After a short time in the States, after being drafted, he   leave behind a legacy. However, regardless of background,
        was sent to England to unload supplies before the         in this precious life, only one thing is certain: that we will
        European invasion, then landed the second day of D-Day    eventually give back that gift and pass soundly out of this
        on Normandy Beach, where he stayed for five and a half    world.
        months, unloading supplies on the beach for the invasion.
                                                                  “My donor patient had a wondrous grasp on what life
        “Then was sent to Antwerp Belgium where supplies were     had given to her, and now she has handed me that gift of
        then sent. He was attending a theater in his off duty,    life. Every time I entered the lab to work with her, along
        which was hit dead center with a German V2 rocket. The    with every other donor patient, I came alive. She had
        buddies on both sides of him were killed and he was       quite literally been my first patient, and she has taught me
        buried under rubble for 12 hours. His only injury was a   so much. Not only about medicine, but about myself:
        severed nerve in his back which effected his leg and he   discipline, attention to detail, patience, tenderness, and
        recovered quite soon.                                     perseverance. The unselfishness that my donor patient,
                                                                  along with every other donor patient showed when
        “He was sent home to an Army hospital and from there
        attended Oregon State College, where I met him. He had    making the choice to donate their bodies to help fuel our
        a car down at Corvallis and I was needing a ride home.    passion and education is unmatched. Being here today
        We connected through a friend and he kept taking me       with the loved ones of these individuals is an honor I can
        home on weekends for about nine months. Then we got       hardly put into words. From myself, and the rest of the
        married.”                                                 COMP-Northwest class of 2022, Thank You, from the
                                                                  bottom of our hearts, for choosing to give us your gift.”
        Others sent in poems to be read, such as To Remember
        Me, by Robert Noel Test:                                  A memorial service normally celebrates the long, winding
                                                                  path people take and the many corners of this world
          Give my sight to the man who has never seen a sunrise,   they’ve been to, and brings together the lives of those they
          a baby’s face, or love in the eyes of a woman.          touched before they passed. This donor patient memorial
                                                                  celebrates the path they took after they passed. It brings
          Give my heart to a person whose heart has caused
                                                                  together those they touched before they passed and after.
          nothing but endless days of pain.
                                                                  It shows everyone the lives they lived before finally
          Give my blood to the teenager who was pulled from the   closing their eyes, and the people they’ve helped after
          wreckage of his car, so that he might live to see his   those eyes stayed closed. n
          grandchildren play.
                                                                  Photos taken at various Donor Patient Memorials: Photos from the
                                                                  WesternU Pomona campus by Jeff Malet, Multimedia Manager,
          Give my kidneys to one who depends on a machine to
                                                                  WesternU Public Affairs and Marketing, and photos from WesternU
          exist from week to week.                                Lebanon campus by Luke Rauch, Luke Rauch, Recruiter and Project
                                                                  Manager.
          Take my bones, every muscle, every fiber, and nerve in
          my body and find a way to make a crippled child walk.

          If you must bury something, let it be my faults, my

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